It's funny the things you don't think will happen.
I was discussing this with Sam, a friend and housemate last night, and it's incredible the situations that you don't plan on. I'm sure that this is just hitting me now because I lead and have lead my life by myself for so long. I'm sure that when one has children, everything that they do not think of happens. But for me, it's really a change.
When I asked to live in a house this year, I had a fairly clear vision of what that would look like. Me, some freaking awesome girls, a nice house. I expected drama (hey, we're all girls!) and I expected little things to come up here and there.
But then our 10th housemate never showed, and Colleen left, and Sarah came, and it pretty much happened all at once. Everything shifted and the house dynamic is different, and I don't know how to address it.
More later.